A woman has only three needs. If you think that this is an apartment, a car and a fur coat – then you are mistaken.
Everything is much simpler and more accessible.
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Women are very social and addicted to communication. We do not understand why you are going underground. Because it’s more natural for us to get together with friends and socialize.
All that we do in life ultimately has one goal – to feel a closeness with other people. We really like intimate conversations with friends, movies about intimacy and love. And we really want to feel you, know what’s in your heart.
We call you and ask: “Where are you?” Several times a day. Not to control. And just to hear what you think of us. At least sometimes.
We live negative emotions, speaking about them. Therefore, when we see you in serious condition, we want to talk you through (although you want to be alone at this time).
And we would like, when it is not easy for us to talk with you. This is not easy, especially for you. After all, we have everything together – feelings, thoughts, events. But if you remember that we just need to talk out and cry out in your shoulder – perhaps it will be easier for you.
We do not want advice, recipes, summaries. We just want you to listen to us, hug and say: “My little one, it’s very difficult for you now. But I’m with you. And I love you”
Yes, we want to hear all the time that you love us. For you it is stupid, but for us – it is necessary as air. We want to understand that today we are as close as we were yesterday. That you still love us.
We, like you, want to feel valuable and necessary. It is important for us to understand that every meal you receive is gratefully received.
That you appreciate every clean shirt in your closet. What is important to you is our beauty and well-being.
We adore compliments. Insanely. After all, with the help of them we feel that you love us. That you are grateful to us and close. At the same time, it is very important for us that your compliments should be diverse, aimed at our qualities and be sincere.
We are insanely vulnerable and sensitive. Even if outwardly we build thick walls and shells, inside of us there always lives a small fragile girl.
And we really want to be cared for. Sometimes we seem to be armored tanks from the outside, and you think that your care is useless. But without it, we lose our femininity and beauty.
More than anything in the world, we dream of being cared for. It seems to us that it is easy – to give a hand when leaving the bus, hold the door, help with heavy bags, meet late at night from work, listen to us in difficult moments …
Perhaps, for you, it is really difficult – especially the last one. But we like it. For such care, we are ready to inspire you, to worship and care for you.
Even more, we want to stop working from dawn to dusk and start creating houses. Create in him harmony, love, the atmosphere.
We want to be close to our children, prepare you breathtaking dinners, buy new curtains home.
This is our nature – we want to create and be women.
And perhaps it seems to you that not every woman wants this. But look into her eyes and deep inside you will see this little girl who likes to create the world around her.