In relations, there are 5 important stages of rapprochement, without them, relations have no future. If some stages are missed, nothing will come out until you have learned the lessons of the previous stages.
A man meets a Woman, he likes him, she is special to him, but he has a sense of physical attraction to her the same as to other women. Physical attraction is the energy that inspires the man. This applies not only to young people but also to people of any age. The woman is so arranged that she pays little attention to the male appearance, rather his intelligence and responsibility.
If this is love at first sight – then it’s all about him invented. If, it happened on the principle: I saw it and immediately understood it! – The woman worked imagination. It’s a very big mistake to believe that without going through the stage of communication, she can meet that person. Even if she meets him, she will always doubt, all her life, whether this is a person, because in her heart she will understand that everything could not be so simple. It can not be so easy to lift an airplane into the air. A novice pilot often has a problem after picking up an airplane – how can he be planted now? So with relationships that do not have a proper foundation. This level is the foundation of future relations.
Obligatory and necessary stage! A man wants a woman, and then after the first victories, he suddenly feels like a complete idiot – and now she does not even want to call. “Maybe it’s not her!” The secret is that a man must endure a phase of doubt and still continue to court, and then, doubtless, go to stage 3. A woman at this stage should remain calm. If he suddenly disappears- do not call and do not The most stupid question that a woman can ask at this stage is “how do you treat me?”. He himself does not know the answer to this question! The man’s psyche acts according to the principle of suspenders – the further he moves away, the more he will be attracted with greater force. And in the second stage, the first distance occurs. It is important for a woman to be calm, not to strain.
3. The desire to be the only one
If the man has correctly passed the stage of doubt, the woman did not interfere with his calls, and did not punish him when he finally called (“before it was necessary to call, the train left”), he has an acute desire to meet only this woman, deepen these (it does not mean physical intimacy, it can only worsen the relationship at this stage.) Women usually spoil everything when they do not allow the man to doubt, and often in the 15th year of marriage, the man remains in a state of uncertainty.
4. Soulful relationships
People go deeper into the life and heart of each other. Before that, it’s easier for a woman to hide her negative character traits, but at this stage the reverse side of the medal is already visible. If a woman at this stage can not so open and become herself, tries with all her might to look good, not to show her negative qualities of character, emotions, that is, she does not trust the man – it means that this is not the stage. An attempt by a woman to look good in the eyes of a man suggests that she does not appreciate this relationship, and does not trust a man. And thus, she herself destroys the relationship since the suppression of emotions causes their accumulation and explosion, which is very dangerous. This is a joyful stage since we can be ourselves. But if you become yourself before, it can lead to disappointment.
The stage of the relationship that precedes marriage. Any married couple can imagine themselves at the engagement stage. As if my wife, but at any time you can leave. A competent parting at this stage is proceeding from the context of “I love you, but not enough to live with you all my life.” We can love many, but loved people with whom we can live a lifetime – very little, a very common mistake – I think that if I love this person, now this is the only person with whom I can connect my destiny. “However, when we met a soul mate (at first we did not have a passionate love) and after completing all the stages of the relationship we began to love. said to the American: “Do you know why?” you have so many divorces? Because you are constantly striving to immediately marry those who are loved, and we are trying to love those,