Currently, television and the media talk about this without false modesty. We often hear in an interview with a middle-aged couple, a story about how it’s good to wake up next to a loved one. Sex and love do not have age, we can fall in love at any moment. Mature people are no exception. The secret of the success of mature relationships is in making changes that occur with age.
According to the latest research and surveys of sexually active women, forty and fifty, more and more of them are looking for young partners. Sexual life is a key element of high self-esteem and psychological comfort.
Do not need to be a big fan in the past to have a happy romantic relationship at the age of after fifty. In this new phase of life you can discover other approaches to sexuality different from those of the past. Sexuality in adulthood helps to restore the will to live, to love being knowledgeable and knowledgeable, free from social conventions and family.
Adopt a changing body
To live a full sexual life when you are over fifty, you have to correct expectations: you can not expect a body that is the same as in youth, tireless. It is fundamental to know how to take your body and adapt to new sexual stimuli without fear. Taking care of yourself is very important, a hairdresser, a beautician, makeup and a good dress will make you more confident.
You do not need to see only flaws, because sexuality and passion is based on the balance between emotional and physical factors. We should also try not to have unjustified fears, they can put relations at risk.
It is very important, if the partner does not have expectations and requirements, understands that you will not change.
When a woman enters menopause, it is not only physical changes, mostly psychological ones, with their way of expression (anxiety, irritability, depression …) that arouse indignation in female identity. If the first half of sexual and social life was complete, satisfaction can still be, the main thing – to accept changes. If the decrease in hormones and the dryness of the vagina caused by menopause lead to a loss of libido-a simple conversation with a doctor who will prescribe estrogen based on the gel. If the problem also applies to atrophy of the vaginal mucosa, burning and blood loss, even in this case the doctor can eliminate hormonal problems. But the main thing is not to give up, and always talk about it, either with a partner or with a doctor.
The situation is different for him: a reproductive point of view is always fertile, although with age decreases the production of hormones. Nevertheless, the changes are slow and do not interfere with sexual life. With age, however, men tend to reach orgasm much earlier and ejaculate less. Sometimes there are problems with erection, for psychological or physiological reasons.
In these cases, you should not give up, you need to talk with a doctor who can prescribe hormonal treatment, but, of course, avoid taking an unwanted pill of love on your own.